{"id":774,"date":"2022-02-13T14:48:48","date_gmt":"2022-02-13T19:48:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chriswagg.ca\/?p=774"},"modified":"2022-02-13T16:52:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-13T21:52:42","slug":"a-very-tragic-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chriswagg.ca\/?p=774","title":{"rendered":"A Very Tragic Day"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The phone is ringing on a busy, yet regular morning.&nbsp; \u201cThere\u2019s been an accident\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every parent\u2019s nightmare!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Story spoken from Linda\u2019s own words:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI was biking to work in August and it was a normal start to a 7 am call to go work at the local reserve in Salmon Arm, British Columbia.&nbsp; My job there, was to weed their extensive garden beds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everything seemed fine until I got hit by a truck.&nbsp; I don\u2019t remember anything from this day, but this is what has been pieced together from the driver and police reports.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I left on my normal route and was biking on the wrong side of the road, facing oncoming traffic.  On busy roads with lots of traffic, I thought this is was the safest way so that I could see oncoming traffic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the truck hit me, I went up in the air and came down on the hood of the truck.&nbsp; My head hit the windshield.&nbsp; The driver hit the brakes and I flew about 30 feet.&nbsp; He got out of the truck and he found me, not breathing.&nbsp; He slightly turned my head until my breathing resumed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"939\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chriswagg.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/img_6650-1.jpg?resize=939%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-778\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption><em>As you can see its a busy intersectionbut the driver was known to have a heavy foot.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A friend of the family was the paramedic who did the call.&nbsp; I was stabilized and then was taken to Vernon.&nbsp; I was told that I was going to die the first night, my injuries were too much.&nbsp; My dad and the elders from his church anointed me with oil that night because they thought I was going to die.&nbsp; My first surgery was for my leg and I had a 12 inch steel plate and 12 pins inserted.&nbsp; I was then sent to Kelowna for brain surgery because of my head hitting the windshield.&nbsp; I was then transferred back to Vernon for my leg after a few days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My first memories are the ride back to Vernon from Kelowna.  They had to collapse the traction on my leg and I remember the pain.  Collapsing the traction meant the weights were not pulling the bones back in each direction, everything including the weights were resting on my leg. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My second memory is in my room and it\u2019s dark and I see the hallway is light.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My mom stayed by my side until I was discharged after 35 days in the hospital.&nbsp; Several of my injuries were not fixed.&nbsp; My left middle finger will not straighten, my left shoulder is permanently dislocated and has a bump sticking out of it.&nbsp; With all the surgeries to my leg I had the ugliest walking brace and required an old persons Hush Puppy shoe with a heel on it!&nbsp; Cringe!&nbsp; For school, I had a teacher come into our house. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As the years have passed, I have had some ongoing issues.&nbsp; My shoulder still has a protrusion but it doesn\u2019t hurt.&nbsp; I had my knee replaced about 10 years ago and the hardware is now loose and it hurts but to replace it would be worse than the initial surgery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chriswagg.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/img_4341.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-769\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><figcaption><em>Left to right is Linda\u2019s children. <\/em><em>Rachelle, Kaylee and Lane. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have asked myself a thousand times why I couldn\u2019t have been 30 seconds slower that day.&nbsp; He would have passed in front of me and gone down another road.&nbsp; My earliest thoughts were positive.&nbsp; I was young and told that I would heal mostly from all this and life would go on.&nbsp; The whole leg injury was the longest journey.&nbsp; Being bed ridden, walking cast, multiple surgeries and the final news that your leg is now over 1-3\/4 inches shorter than the other.&nbsp; That was super heart-breaking news!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As for the memory loss?  I have zero memories.  Mom and dad kept amazing photo albums and that is what I rely on for my first seventeen years of my life.  The nasty perms mom gave me, the sports I did, sibling rivalries, piano playing along with a million other activities \u2014 all those memories are gone.  When I think I have a memory, it\u2019s from a picture.  I would have to really think if there are any concrete memories.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I first went to visit Linda, I remember this story with strange clarity.&nbsp; I think I kept this close to me because it really impacted me that I could have lost her without ever meeting her.&nbsp; Having her back in my life has brought fullness to my life. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"583\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chriswagg.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/img_6649.jpg?resize=583%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chriswagg.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/img_6649.jpg?resize=583%2C1024&#038;ssl=1 583w, https:\/\/chriswagg.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/img_6649-480x843.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 583px, 100vw\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption><em>I am the top &#8220;twin&#8221; and Linda is in the stripes<\/em> <em>when we were 16 and 17ish<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Hug those sisters!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The phone is ringing on a busy, yet regular morning.&nbsp; \u201cThere\u2019s been an accident\u201d.&nbsp; Every parent\u2019s nightmare! 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